One man said: “People change, love hurts, friends leave, things go wrong, but just remember that life goes on”. I consider it to be not a misconception, but a good quote which characterize our life in general.

All these things, people, love, friends, other different stuff make our life exiting, but not always. Our life can’t be without concerns. Those elements in question can’t be replaced with one another, they have equal roles in our everyday life, no matter how they could depress us. That means everyone faces difficulties, for example, when people, who were close to you, leave as they have to. Of course, it’s hard to put up with this moments, and we often starts misjudging them for not staying with us. Such reaction means that we are ill-prepared for such unpredictable events.

We have the same feelings speaking about love. However, when the lover falls out of love with you, your sadness is intensified greatly. People feel lonely, stressed and miserable as the one who was the reason of happiness, underrates them. Even friendship, which we suppose to be trouble-free and full of interaction, sometimes can become a real concern. Recognition of the fact that you are defendless as you lost friend or devoid of support makes it difficult to visualize that life goes on anyway.

The main secret of contentment is our altitude to things around us. We should be ready that things may go wrong, but our life is in our hands. It goes without saying, that it’s not always possible to change what happens to us, but can always change how we translate what happens to us. Depreciating yourself is the most common mistake. People don’t understand that they could simplify their lives and it’s evident that life is changing including people and stuff in it. So, the best way to deal with this problem is to prosper for positive, activities and people who are able to cheer you up and make it clear that everything will be OK. Also, we should mention such feature as flexibility which helps to overcome problems.

We have only one life, so there is no place for weakness, bad people who can impose views on you. We deserve to be happy, no matter how many obstacles are in the way. Just don’t give up.